Friday, October 30, 2009

teenage daughter

Funnyman DAX SHEPARD treasures a letter California Governor ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER once sent him after the actor joked about dating his teenage daughter at a tribute event.What Will Your Teenage Daughter Look Like? Are you wondering what your future daughter will turn out like as a teenager? Are you wondering if she'll have the same personality as you? Will she be successful? Well look no further! ...Mom Draws the Line at Daughter's Activities. teri hatcher 2 Which Celebrity mom and network TV star with a teenage daughter just walked in to find her underage little girl doing a line with one of her adult co-stars? Not Teri Hatcher. ...I'm no Palin fan, not even remotely, but this kid has aired her family's dirty laundry and basically used knocking up a former Vice Presidential hopeful's teenage daughter to garner fame for himself. Ooh, you're so talented. ...Which celebrity mom and network TV star with a teenage daughter just walked in to find her underage little girl doing a line with one of her adult co-stars? Not Teri Hatcher. (BuzzFoto). If only Patricia Heaton had a teenage daughter! ...The free event, at 480 Primrose Road, begins at 7 p.m. The newly released memoir recounts the battle her teenage daughter Lisa had with anorexia and bulimia, which at times became life threatening. To view this site, you need to have ...As a Parent Advocate, I founded my organization after struggling with my own teenage daughter. My story has been widely read and published by Health Communications, Inc - original home of Chicken Soup for the Soul book series. ...They (a single mama and her teenage daughter) moved in today. I spent the day helping her clean out the house she's moving out of. She'll be downsizing to a condo rental and found a great deal, but the current tenants won't be moved ...A man denied today that he murdered his own teenage daughter.
Okay so since i was little me and my mom have always been best friends. i mean we have done everything together. Most the time i hangout with her and ditch my friendds! Im 15 now. I have so much fun and love to be around my mom, it makes me happier than anything. We are more like sisters than mother and daughter. But lately, every time we seem to be together we argue and no matter how hard we both try to stop, it just turns into another fight. I've sat down and had a heart to heart about it, and we both agreed to change are ways , but so far it hasn't worked. For example, last night we got in a fight because we were watching a video on yuotube and she was like oh well this girl thinks shes good, and i was like mom chill its a video. Somehow those two sentences started a whole fight and it blew up into not talking for the rest of the night. Then i woke up today and we were fine. aFTER SCHOOL, FINE. Tonight we were fine until i was doing my hair and she was like don't put hair spray in it, it will make it dry. Then i was like ugghh. Cause somehow she persuades me into not doing this every time i do my hair, and i want to! It just gets frustrating but i know shes just trying to help. Now were not talking and i hate it. And i wwouldnt be upset if they were just normal fights that every teenage daughter has with their mom, but their not! They blow up and get way out of hand. And i hate it, because i feel like for the last 5 months, i've been losing her. And she just keeps telling me that she wants her nice sweet daughter back. How can we get back to normal, like the way things used to be? Anyone please answer, im desperate. I just dont want to lose her anymore thani already have.


the movie opens with 2 brothers and they shoot their parents in bed, years later they break out of prison and take a family hostage, the mum goes with the older brother and teenage daughter with the younger one, they have some sort of weird underworld thing like under the house and they all shoot eachother and die, the only person that survives is the little girl. pretty sure one of the bros names is james or last name or something. watched it years ago


What would you do if you found out your daughter was pregnant?

And your daughter got pregnant with her boyfriend, not raped

Would you let her stay there? kick her out? make her get married? etc.

This is for a poll for my parenting class, so your cooperation is valued.

Thank you
oh, and what would you suggest

Keeping, Adoption or Abortion
Even though, you cannot force people to get married, I know some catholic families that would do whatever they could to try to get them to marry


If your daughter was dating a guy that she really liked, and he left her and broke her heart, would you accept her decision to get back with this guy? And what would the best way for your daughter to tell you she is dating this guy again?
He left her because he thought he liked someone else and then realized he was in love with her


If your daughter was dating a guy that she really liked, and he left her and broke her heart, would you accept her decision to get back with this guy? And what would the best way for your daughter to tell you she is dating this guy again?


My friend is a single dad and his 14yr old daughter just got a boyfriend. My friend and I are really close (as friends only, he has a gf of many years and I have a husband) and his daughter really trusts me. Last night we were on msn and she asked me if I could explain to her "stuff, cuz u know I have a bf now" and I ask if it was about protection and contraceptives and she said YES.Her dad asked me about a month ago to explain all this to her BUT I didnt see the right moment until just last night.

I am planing to take her for lunch to a place she likes and then talk to her seriously about it, I am going to a doctor today to get info for her BUT where do I explain this to her? How do I start? How and what should I tell her?
Any advise?


Familes. They're like embroideries, quilts of yesteryear. Some appear to be crafted hastily by morose, drunken teenage girls who dream of maternity, themselves at twenty-three, cradling their darlings in deflated bosoms, the mortgage half-paid. Some are detailed tapestries, consisting of rich, prestigious old fibers. These are crafted by the sexagenarians, who have humdrum eyes, yet beneath those eyes there is a history, a saga. Their hisotries have been studied, subliminally, through their subconscience. They wear baggy sweaters that scream neon strife and hope to subsume grandchildren and spoil them with video games that stain the child's eyes with modern violence that flashes upon the screen radioactively. Amid the 3 P.M baths that now seem cold, and the Friday night cafeteria socials (shuffling with the Frank's, the Mel's, the Lou's) there is forever ample time to brood over the men their once dear, angelic daughters chose to wed. A favorite hobby in the decreasing minds of the elderly generators is the habits and lack of contributions of these men: the sports, the outdated clothing, the modest hovels with little space, the lack fluidity in these men's accounts.


What would a mom want from her teenage daughter? Please no homemade ideas, I don't think she's into that things. I usually get her clothes and jewelry but I'm running low on money right now and don't know something cheap (under 15$) that will still make her happy. I'm a pretty good cook, but would a cake and something else be enough?


All I wanna know is why? Why have people have decided on a masculine name for their daughters? Why is this so popular now?

I have gone through my life, I am now 22, as a girl with a boys name, with the only difference being the spelling of my name. It has been spelled for a girl,. My parents spelled it Toni rather Tony.

I have never really likes it and I am sure if anyone gives their daughter a masculine name, that girl will not like it.
I was teased and ridiculed all through my teenage years. I HATED high school.
And now I get phone calls asking for "Mr Tony G _ _ _ _ _" and letters and emails addressed to Mr Tony G_ _ _ _ _. Even my High school had me listed as a male student. I went there for the full five years of High school.

Why do people do this? PLEASE -Do not do this to your child. She will HATE it.

Also -any names that end in "Son" such as Greyson, mean "Son of" Why call your daughter a son?
But WHY is it trendy? It is a horrible thing to go through as a teenager, and as an adult!


If for example you had a teenage daughter (17) with Hodgkin's (a type of cancer like 99% of the people who have it survive, but still sucks) which required horrible IV chemo twice a month (and btw, she's very needle phobic so that sucks even more!) and taking chemo by pill every single day that is now making her have to miss dance and the things she loves and forcing her to spend half her life sitting at home bored out of her mind, wouldn't you back off and give her more slack when she did actually feel awesome and well enough to do things and let her stay out longer for things like Halloween? Would you still ground a girl that has been through hell for relatively minor things like curfew? Bear in mind that lots of times she can't even go out anymore, so it's like she's grounded for life, and so when she does feel well enough to go out, she wants to stay out longer, which you would think a parent would understand. I'm just curious.
Clo - o.O what kind of Hodgkin's did your cousin have? Do you know? Was it regular HL? Aw, that's tragic. I'm sorry.





Ok I've been with my boyfriend for 16 years...he is 34years old and a complete cell phone junkie! He is on his phone all day, even when we are having our meals on the table. When we go to church, he is texting...and when he is driving he has a blue tooth, but he scares me cause he gets too into his "gossiping" conversations that he almost wrecks..he even texts while on the freeway all the time. I have looked at the phone bill and noticed that while he is working, he is also on his phone all day! The crazy thing is that nothing is ever important! He just makes me and my daughter feel like we are NOT important...we have to wait for him to get off his phone so we can talk to him. Between myself, him and our teenage daughter, we have 2000 min to use...my daughter and I use about 100 min together, and he uses the rest! He gossips and makes up rumors all the time when we should be having family time. I have talked to him about this hundreds of times and he doesnt listen..I worry that when my daughter is in the car with him, he might wreck.... This is a big problem for us and I have left him for that before along with other reason, then he promises me that he wont use his phone that much anymore...then at first he doesnt use it as much, but after a few weeks he is back on track....What should I do?


The name of the movie: Picture Perfect The stars: Richard Karn, Mary Page Keller, Dave Thomas, etc. Plot summary: Dave Thomas plays owner of soda company. Richard Karn plays widowed writer, with two daughters. Mary Page Keller plays divorcee, with teenage son. Karn, Keller, and young cast members must pretend to be happy family, for a full week, to win soda spokes-family contest. I saw this only once, on ABC/Family network. Any ideas where I could find this, on D.V.D.?


I walked in on my fifteen year old son and fourteen year old daughter sitting on the couch. This was normal, until I saw what they were watching, malexmale porn. I told them to turn it off and go to their rooms... Now what should I do?

I mean is this normal?


Hey there is this movie...Actually its a bit old...
It talks about a teenage daughter who lives with her mother...This daughter met a man whom she really loved.She married him and took him to live with her at her mom's.Her mother hated him and was always so mean to him,at the end of the movie the husband kills his mother-in-law and the daughter ends up in the hospital.





I'm just so angry. My mum, who is 82, had been keeping some money is a wallet in her wardrobe ( I didn't know about it till now), about $600.00, she had left from selling her car, which was no use to her now she has been unable to drive..
Anyway, by brother lives with her,(who I know would not steal from our mother), and his teenage son and daughter stay a few nights a week.
Mum went to get $50.00 of the money for something the other day, and there is only $150.00 left. She told my brother, who said the kids wouldn't have taken it, but who else could have? There was nothing disturbed as if an intruder had broke in- we just don't know what to think.
I know she probably shouldn't have kept the money at home, especially as she said some went missing , maybe 6 months or so ago- I would've told her to put it in the bank, but I didn't know she had it at home.
It's just so frustrating-I don't know what to think, and am upset that someone has taken money from her


Grandma is eighty-eight years old and still drives her own car. She writes:




Dear Grand-daughter,

The other day I went up to our local Christian book store and saw a
'Honk if you love Jesus' bumper sticker ..

I was feeling particularly sassy that day because I had just come from a
thrilling choir performance, followed by a thunderous prayer meeting..

So, I bought the sticker and put it on my bumper.

Boy, am I glad I did; what an uplifting experience that followed.

I was stopped at a red light at a busy intersection, just lost in
thought about the Lord and how good he is, and I didn't notice that the
light had changed.

It is a good thing someone else loves Jesus because if he hadn't
honked, I'd never have noticed.

I found that lots of people love Jesus!

While I was sitting there, the guy behind started honking like crazy,
and then he leaned out of his window and screamed, 'For the love of
God!'

'Go! Go! Go! Jesus Christ, GO!'

What an exuberant cheerleader he was for Jesus!

Everyone started honking!

I just leaned out my window and started waving and smiling at all those
loving people.

I even honked my horn a few times to share in the love!
;
There must have been a man from Florida back there because I heard him
yelling something about a sunny beach.

I saw another guy waving in a funny way with only his middle finger
stuck up in the air.

I asked my young teenage grandson in the back seat what that meant.

He said it was probably a Hawaiian good luck sign or something.

Well, I have never met anyone from Hawaii , so I leaned out the window
and gave him the good luck sign right back.

My grandson burst out laughing.

Why even he was enjoying this religious experience!!

A couple of the people were so caught up in the joy of the moment that
they got out of their cars and started walking towards me.

I bet they wanted to pray or ask what church I attended, but this is
when I noticed the light had changed.

So, grinning, I waved at all my brothers and sisters, and drove on
through the intersection.

I noticed that I was the only car that got through the intersection
before the light changed again and felt kind of sad that I had to leave
them after all the love we had shared.

So I slowed the car down, leaned out the window and gave them all the
Hawaiian good luck sign one last time as I drove away. Praise the Lord
for such wonderful folks!!

Will write again soon,

Love, Grandma
Now this is one sweet grammee! LOL
Now this is one sweet grammee! LOL


My daughter, age 15, had her blood drawn Saturday morning, then fainted in the front office. Ever since then she has had a splitting migraine headache and feels cold and weak. Does anyone have any idea what this could be? The doctor wants to see her but not until day after tomorrow so it must not be too bad. She is taking 500 mg. of Panadol, which seems to help the pain alittle. Thanks for all serious answers..
Chloe..no..she did not hit her head, but thanks for asking.


Say this mother was already aware her daughter was experimenting a little and planned to put her on birth control but hadn't gotten around to it. I have learned from my teenager daughter, who is friends with this girl, that the girl is sexually active. Would you stick your neck out and let the mother know that birth control is really in order now, no matter the consequences of breaking confidentiality? Or would you just mind your own business and hope no pregnancy or STDs happens?


my boyfriend proposed in may with a ring and all that and i said yes. he called my dad after and there was some misunderstanding that my bf was asking permission, not asking a blessing. my dad can be a little scary, his is the father of 3 teenage girls and no sons, and he told my bf that 'yes he can propose to me, just not right now please'. so that was our fault that we were in a pickle and our first engaged moment was totally ruined.
my mom went ballistic and crazy mad for wanting to get married young for the rest of the day (i was away for college in another state, hes in the military in the same state) and my dad was just...shocked, i guess. after that day, my parents did not bring up anything related to marriage/ engagement/ proposal/ that type of thing.
now, im finishing my BS here at home and the boyfriends on patrol for the whole holiday season and after (i see him in march :( ).
now, my parents (mostly the mother) are all anti-young-marriage yet THEY got married at the same age i am. Actually, they ran off and eloped, then came home and got engaged and then had a ceremony...and 25 years later, they are still married. my mom made me feel like i was trash and some "housewife" becasue i want to marry the man that makes me happy and makes me smile. but, when i see him in march, i want to come home with that over-the-top sparkler he bought. i want to be engaged to him and i want to plan a wedding. i will marry him, and we will do it in vegas if thats what it comes too, but i want our families behind us. we'll both be 21 in a few months, older than my parents were when they got married/eloped. i obviously wouldnt get married the next day if i get engaged.

how do i bring this up with them without my mom going crazy and kicking me out of the house?

im almost done with my BS, only 2 more semesters to go and they were the ones that wanted me to come home and live with them to finish since its so expensive.
i want to live here for another year, i want my parents to be supportive, and mostly i want to be engaged to my boyfriend. i have other issues with my mom but they should want there daughter to be happy right. they love my bf like their own son and he loves them too. i dont want my family to be tense and fustrated becasue im finally doing what i want.


I know it's natural for girls to change especially entering their teenage years but with my daughter seems to be changing extremely fast. Within the last five months she's lost 20lbs and is now 120lbs, asking me to buy her clothes from Aritzia, h&m, hollister etc, basically she's changed her whole appearance. I notice when we go out a lot more guys look at her but her grades have gone down (by a little). I haven't said anything to her yet and there is nothing wrong with those stores or wanting to change but I don't know how to ask her if something has happened to make her want to change. Please help-advice on how to speak to her.

Any books ?
What have you done with your children ?


I'm a 42 year old divorcee, have two teenage daughters, work as a real estate broker, and have plans to marry in three months. A couple of years ago, I had to get glasses for reading/close work. I decided to get bifocals so I could keep them on in my office. My fiance, believe it or not, thinks I look hot with my glasses on and has hinted that I wear them all the time. Personally, I think I look more attractive without them and I also think they make me look 10 years older. I'm in a dilemma. Do you feel that I should continue to wear them only when I really need to? Or, should I give them a try for a week or two, as my fiance has suggested, then decide at that point? Thank you for your opinions. Terri.


Okay..I would like to hear from the teenagers too so if your under 18 please state your age so I have a good idea of what reference "mental and emotional" of a response you are giving. Thank you!

I have a newly teenage daughter. She is coming into her own. Discovering boys. She has always acted and dressed like a tomboy..just who she is.
But now that she is at that "social" age..her friends have been helping her with clothes, hair, nails, (she still refuses makeup). When she comes to me and shows me what her and her best friend have done with her style for the day..she comes to me excited..and then when I compliment her on how great she looks..she gets upset as if I am making a big deal out of it.

I always keep my responses simple. Oh you look great. or I like the way your hair is parted. Apparently trying to show support is upsetting her or if I don't show support it upsets here.

Chalk this one up to teenage hormones I am sure but anyone have any thoughts or imput on this one. As too, do I keep trying to be involved by complimenting her on her earrings or if she wears hairclips for once. or do I just ask as if I don't see her and let her do her thing?

I am sure she feels uncomfortable with the change from lack of self confidence but I can see she really wants to move from being a tom boy to being more girly especially because all her female friends are into fashion, the mall and so on.


My sister age 47 became a widow 3 years ago. She has 2 biological teenage daughters and 2 adopted daughters (one is mildly retarded and has other issues: wetting to bed, etc ) age is 10 but acts like a toddler. My sister is rather sloppy and disorganized and has little control over the kids. My sister she is moving in with age 63 is very particular. neat, organized and moody. I have tried to talk her out of this but she says it will be ok. How long do you think it will last?


I saw the first 20 minutes or so of a very disturbing movie awhile back.
-It began with a decent into an afterlife.
-A mother, father and teenage daughter at a rental cottage.
- Mothers drives car off the road into river.
- All three actors are well known.
- I thought teen girl was Reese Witherspoon, but appears I am wrong.
- Released mid to late 90's (?) as girl makes reference of going to Pearl Jam concert.

Any clue what movie I am talking about? I would love to see the rest someday.





This is the essay I wrote to my parents explaining why I want to pierce my lip. along with this I attatched 4 pictures of girls with lip rings that look nice and presentable. I'm 15 by the way.

Why I Want My Lip Pierced
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I have wanted to get my lip pierced for quite some time and Ia��ve actually put a lot more thought into it then you probably woulda��ve guessed. I want you to know that I have been thinking about this for a really long time now and that this is not a random impulsive decision. Lip piercings are a very pretty little piece of jewelry that are completely temporary despite popular belief. When I decide that I dona��t want it anymore, I can take it out, and the tiny hole heals over easily without leaving a scar because the hole is too teeny to cause any real tissue damage. If I got one I can take it out (after the initial healing process of about two weeks only) when I go to formal occasions or any place where it wouldna��t be considered a�?appropriate.a�? Lip rings are also one of the fastest healing piercings. They are much less likely to get infected than most other piercings, including ears. I know you probably think lip piercings are ugly and make me look like a little hoodlum but I dona��t even have to get a ring if you think those are too hoodlum-ish. I can get a pretty little diamond stud that would be nice and classy and quite non-hoodlum-ish J They are a great way to express my style without doing anything permanent or irremovable like a tattoo which, surprisingly, a lot of people in my grade have. I think thata��s crazy by the way. And if you are concerned about my future with having a lip ring for job interviews and college interviews and such well guess what I have thought about that because I really do care about my future and I have a solution! J okay so when the time comes for me to go get a job and start applying for college and stuff I know that they wont take well to facial piercings which is why some awesome genius Einstein dude created the idea of piercing retainers :D they are teeny tiny little clear studs that go in your piercing just to make sure it doesna��t close in some freak accident or something like that and they completely hide your piercing so the interviewer would never know you have one. Genius right! J and I can even wear it on a daily basis to a job so that I wont be breaking dress code and they will still never know I have one J or to save the trouble of buying a clear thing I could just take it out which seems like a better idea now that I think about ita��well anyways, I know you may think that others will view me in a bad way or something like that but lip rings are not so uncommon in teenagers that I would be thought down upon for having one. And even if somebody thinks down on me for having one, its life and I guess not everyone will have the same views on things that I do and its not like Ia��m a bad kid thata��s doing it for some psycho cult that enjoys poking holes in their lips for entertainment or anything, Ia��m a good kid and I dona��t get into trouble or do anything reckless or stupid and I stay away from drugs and alcohol and bad stuff like that even though a huuuge majority of the people in my grade do it and even many of my friends do but I stay above the influence of peer pressure and stuff A�and I will make sure to bring my one little B+ back up to an A if you let me pierce it and if any of my grades go down to a C you can make me take it out or something as my punishment J And you can just let me pierce it instead of giving me money for my Aa��s and ill stop being lazy and do some work to earn money to go get it done myself. And Ia��m not getting this because anyone told me I should or because someone said it would look cool because Ia��m not doing it for anyone else, Ia��m doing it for myself and Ia��m doing it because its something that I have put thought into and I am really adamant on getting someday whether it be in the near future or even years from now. Lip rings come in several different sizes as well and I can make sure I get the smallest kind they have so that the size of the hole would be very small and unnoticeable when ita��s not in my lip. Also, If I get my lip pierced I probably wouldna��t want my hair dyed anymore cause despite popular belief, Ia��m really not emo and dona��t particularly enjoy that so many people think I am and I think that having red hair and a lip ring could get a bit scary to some people. I am very thankful that you are nice enough to let me get such amazing hair too so please dona��t think that Ia��m not. And Ia��m not going to be all dumb and be like blah blah blah Ia��m almost 15 Ia��m not a kid blah blah blah cause Ia��m not an idiot and I know that Ia��m a kid and stuff and that 15 is a really young age to be making a decision about piercing my lip but I hope that my writing a 2 and a half page essay in small little size 13 professional business letter type times new roman font without paragraph breaks will prove to you that Ia��m serious about wanting th
sorry about the J's I posted this from my phone so it does some pretty weird stuff


i have a 14 year old daughter, who wants to dress up for halloween and go out with her friends. All the costumes are very sluty and i dont feel comfortable with her going out. but then i understand her being a teenage girl wanting to dress cute and "hot" any ideas?


I greet him, he never greets first. It's so weird. I'll be in the car driving, he opens the door, spouts sporting wisdom, but will never say hi. We must carpool and greeting him first has not seemed to "click" with him. Frankly I'd like to tell him to bugger off, but that is not an option. Thoughts?


Hi, I am a mother of a 16 year old son and a 14 year old daughter. My son is adopted, he was adopted when he was 8 years old he came from a very abusive family. And also my 14 year old daughter was adopted when she was 2 years old.

I and my husband have mostly been having trouble with our 16 old son. He's rebelling and doing things out character. he's never acted this way he's arguing and fighting with us. I mean I know that's normal teenage behavior but he's just saying such hateful things to us. Like how we aren't his real parents and we can't tell him what he can or can't do. He says how he hates us and he just doing things just to spite us. I've caught him smoking pot and he's gotten arrested for having sex with his girlfriend in a public place (a park) we were able to get it off of his record. He's lying to me lying about stupid little things. And I've have to be a parent so I've grounded him from an unknown time from friends and his girlfriend and he can only go to school and home that's it. And all he does now is say how much he hates us.

My 14 year old daughter just found out that she was adopted from my son who said it slipped. There wasn't any reason we didn't tell her she was just so young when we adopted her we were eventually going to tell her. She was hurt and kind of distance herself from us she has had this distrust in us ever since. About a month ago she came to me and told me that she was bisexual she was telling how confused she was and when I was trying to consol her about it I said its probably just "a phase" and then she yelled at me how I didn't understand. And since then she barely even talked to me or her dad. She actually called me by my first name yesterday she said " I might as well you're not my real mom anyways" I've tried to talk to her but she so stubborn.

What do you think of this situation?


Hi, I am a mother of a 16 year old son and a 14 year old daughter. My son is adopted, he was adopted when he was 8 years old he came from a very abusive family. And also my 14 year old daughter was adopted when she was 2 years old.

I and my husband have mostly been having trouble with our 16 old son. He's rebelling and doing things out character. he's never acted this way he's arguing and fighting with us. I mean I know that's normal teenage behavior but he's just saying such hateful things to us. Like how we aren't his real parents and we can't tell him what he can or can't do. He says how he hates us and he just doing things just to spite us. I've caught him smoking pot and he's gotten arrested for having sex with his girlfriend in a public place (a park) we were able to get it off of his record. He's lying to me lying about stupid little things. And I've have to be a parent so I've grounded him from an unknown time from friends and his girlfriend and he can only go to school and home that's it. And all he does now is say how much he hates us.

My 14 year old daughter just found out that she was adopted from my son who said it slipped. There wasn't any reason we didn't tell her she was just so young when we adopted her we were eventually going to tell her. She was hurt and kind of distance herself from us she has had this distrust in us ever since. About a month ago she came to me and told me that she was bisexual she was telling how confused she was and when I was trying to consol her about it I said its probably just "a phase" and then she yelled at me how I didn't understand. And since then she barely even talked to me or her dad. She actually called me by my first name yesterday she said " I might as well you're not my real mom anyways" I've tried to talk to her but she so stubborn.

What do you think of this situation?


how would you feel if your daughter was pregnant around the same time as you?? not your adult daughter but your teenage daughter..
would you feel like you have to share the spotlight or would feel like yay me and my daughter can go through the pregancy together and bond....

one more ??
at 19 would you say teenage mom??
i always thought when they said teenage mom they were talking about like 13 or 14 year olds...


Unfortunately, I am in love with three women and I swear on everything that I'm not trolling. I am in love with my wife, my ex-girlfriend(first love) and my current girlfriend. I'm 40 years old and I feel like a stupid teenage boy for doing this to them because they are all amazing women. So, I have to make a choice and I'd appreciate some advice and opinions.

I met and fell in love with a woman named Nicole while we were in college and we dated steadily for over three years(1988-1991). I was just beginning to shed my "nerd" image after high school and Nicole became my first love when I got into college. We lost our virginity together and everything. During my fourth year in college in 1991, I had to spend four months in Europe studying abroad. Nicole and I had a big argument before I left for Europe but we didn't exactly breakup. While I was in Europe, I met Annette. Although I've never seen her around campus, she was also studying abroad and she was attending the same college as Nicole and me. Annette and I started studying together and then dating and then falling in love. The closer I got to Annette, the farther apart I got from Nicole. When I returned to New Jersey, I told Nicole that I fell for someone else so we broke up and it broke her heart. Annette and I stayed together, finished college, got married in 1996, had our daughter Casey in 1999 and our son Aaron in 2001. Annette and I had a great marriage and I NEVER cheated until last year. Nicole and I reunited via Myspace in March 2008 through a mutual friend who attended college with us. She's divorced and she has a son around my kids' age; her ex-husband was an abusive jerk. Sparks started flying again, we met up in person and I proceeded to have an affair with Nicole while married to Annette. I still love Nicole but I had no plans on leaving Annette. Nicole feels no remorse about dating me because she feels as though Annette "robbed" her of what she could have had with me. True. In college, Annette did tell me to make a choice between her and Nicole and I chose Annette. So, I guess Nicole is still bitter after all these years. After two months of reconnecting with Nicole, Annette found out about her. She was hurt and she told me to leave. So, I moved out in May 2008 but we still remained legally married. Although I continued to sleep with Nicole, I wasn't ready to commit myself to her because I was still sad about separating from Annette. In July 2008, I met Leslie. She was single, beautiful, smart, funny and sweet. She's 13 years my junior but she's VERY mature. Leslie and I have been dating ever since then and we moved in together two months ago. I'm really in love with her. I'm going to admit that ever since Annette and I separated, we would occasionally spend the night together, have sex and sometimes discuss reconciling. Just like I'm in a relationship with Leslie, Annette has a boyfriend of her own. Now, Annette is sick of "playing games" with me, she told me if I want to give our marriage another chance she will dump her boyfriend Sean and I'll dump Leslie. If not, she's staying with Sean, I'm staying with Leslie and we're getting a divorce. It's a hard decision.

I'm in love with Annette, our marriage was wonderful and it was that ONE mistake with Nicole that ruined it all. Not to mention, Annette and I have two kids who misses having both their parents together. I love Nicole and I always looked back and felt bad about the way I betrayed her in college. So I do feel as though I owe her for that. I always wondered what would have happened if I married her instead. She NEVER would have wound up with such an a s s h o l e for a husband. But I'm VERY happy with Leslie and I love her so much. I'm sure she knows that I still have feelings for my wife but she has NO idea about Nicole. I don't want to keep doing this. Whichever one I choose, the other two will be hurt. What would you do if you were me?





My avatar is normally a parrot and that is because I own an african grey named 'Macy'. I came across this joke. See what you think:
" A woman went to a pet shop and immediately spotted a large, beautiful parrot.
There was a sign on the cage that said A?100.00
"Why so little,"she asked the pet store owner.
The owner looked at her and said, "Look, I should tell you first that this bird used
to live in a house of Prostitution, and sometimes it says some pretty vulgar stuff."
The woman thought about this, but decided she had to have the bird anyway.
She took it home, hung the bird's cage up in her living room, and waited for it to say something.
The bird looked around the room, then at her, and said, "New house, new madam."
The woman was a bit shocked at the implication, but then thought, That's really not so bad."
When her two teenage daughters returned from school the bird saw them and said, "New house, new madam, new girls."
The girls and the woman were a bit offended but then began to laugh about the situation considering how and where the parrot had been raised.
Moments later, the woman's husband Frank came home from work.
The bird looked at him and said, "Hi, Frank."

QUESTION:
Out of 5, how would you, Current Eventers, rate the joke ?
"michael w"
Thanks, Frank. ((signed: Frank)


My husband has 2 kids from a previous relationship. We recently found out some disturbing living arrangement at their mothers house. Their mother has a 3 bedroom apt. Her 16 yr old son and his 14 year old brother (my husbands son) share a room. Her 17 year daughter which we found out is gay and her 20 year old girlfriend share a room with my husbands 10 year old daughter. the mother has her own room. Is there some law or anything against allowing a 10 yr old girl to share a room with a couple? I have nothing against a lesbian or gay relationship. I feel its inappropriate for any preteen to share a bedroom with a couple gay or straight unless its their parents. She is sharing a bedroom with her teenage sister and her adult significant other. Also found out this sleeping arrangement has gone on for over 1 year so actually the mother allowed it when her daughter was 16 and the girlfriend was 19.


hello
im expecting a baby girl anytime now. Me and my hubby Ben have a daughter together called Kieria and i have a daughter from my teenage years called Beau. Ben has excepted Ben as a father and im so relieved she is now going to be a big sister for the secound time. We are expecting a girl.
We were thinking of the names either:

Daisy
Ava
Poppey
Tamari
Maici
Evie
Maisie
Kyra

but our 2 year old daughter Kieria is seton her name being Peppa after Peppa pig! could anyone suggest anymore names maybe and also middle names would be great aswell.

many thanks!
Ashlee Tayla (27)
You pronounce Kieria (Keer-a)


hey folks!!! my teenage daughter is starting to get cellulite and she doesn't like it at all. I don't want to go to the drug store or to Sephora and buy her something for her cellulite. Do any of you know any home remedies for cellulite removal? Thank you so very much!!!


Right, so I have a family in my sims game with a mum and two teenage daughters.
But the daughters absolutely refuse to be attracted to guys and will only get it on with girls xD
Has this ever happened to you?


Just to start off. My father lives and works in another country though he is still married to my mother and visits often. Two of my 3 sisters are currently living overseas. They are 20 and 18, one is living in London until January and the other is living in Melbourne permanantly. I live with my mother and my 5 year old sister. I am also a girl.
The issue here is that my mum is always so clingy and she always thinks that when I ask her for rides to meet up with friends and stuff that I am only using her for transport. I mean I establish a pretty average relationship with my mum as a teenage girl, I'm civil to her, I do stuff for her if she asks me too, things are very casual and we're close but I wouldn't talk to her about boyfriends and stuff unless I had to. Since the house is pretty empty, she doesn't like me going over to friends house for sleepovers instead of having them over, that is understandable, I get that she's lonely, and I try to abide by this rule. But whenever I ask her to take me to some place, she acts like she is bestowing such a great gift upon me and that I should be so grateful that she has taken time out of her day to do this for me. I do appreciate it that she does drive me around, but my other friends' mums always ask if we need rides and stuff and its very casual, like it's just a ride. Is it right for my mum to actually ask me to say thank you when she picks me up? Isn't it kind of a given? Like I don't expect her to thank me when I do the dishes or tidy up the house if she has asked me to do so. If you think about it, the tasks are pretty equal for the different roles we play as family members. I take the time out of my day to vacumn the house, she takes the time out of my day to pick me up from hanging out with my friends, she's not even particuarly busy either. I just feel like everything she does for me, she feels as if she's being so generous, but to me it just seems like the task of a good mother. To me, doing the dishes etc. are just the tasks of being a good daughter. You appreciate each other, but you don't need to keep bringing it up because you know it's just there. There is a public holiday this weekend making it a day longer than it's usual two days. I have made plans with my friends for the first two days and have kept my last day free because I wanted to spend some time with my mum. And I KNOW she's free because my little sister has a party and she had told me that we might be able to do something together. So this was last week when she said this and I kept the last day free, thinking that maybe we could go along that day and see what we wanted to do. Today I brought up that maybe we could do something together on that day and she accused me of just assuming she was free, taking advantage of her after I had all my fun with my friends, because I had nothing to do that day. I was so furious to hear this. I am a good kid, to put it honestly. Good grades, reasonable temper, polite etc. and she KNOWS that. Yet when I youtube or whatever she always asks what I am watching, not out of curiosity, but to check I'm not watching "something inappropriate." What does she think I'm watching? Gay porn? Can't she just trust me that it's nothing bad? I don't know, I get so worked up sometimes. Please help :)
x


Unfortunately, I am in love with three women and I swear on everything that I'm not trolling. I am in love with my wife, my ex-girlfriend(first love) and my current girlfriend. I'm 40 years old and I feel like a stupid teenage boy for doing this to them because they are all amazing women. So, I have to make a choice and I'd appreciate some advice and opinions.

I met and fell in love with a woman named Nicole while we were in college and we dated steadily for over three years(1988-1991). I was just beginning to shed my "nerd" image after high school and Nicole became my first love when I got into college. We lost our virginity together and everything. During my fourth year in college in 1991, I had to spend four months in Europe studying abroad. Nicole and I had a big argument before I left for Europe but we didn't exactly breakup. While I was in Europe, I met Annette. Although I've never seen her around campus, she was also studying abroad and she was attending the same college as Nicole and me. Annette and I started studying together and then dating and then falling in love. The closer I got to Annette, the farther apart I got from Nicole. When I returned to New Jersey, I told Nicole that I fell for someone else so we broke up and it broke her heart. Annette and I stayed together, finished college, got married in 1996, had our daughter Casey in 1999 and our son Aaron in 2001. Annette and I had a great marriage and I NEVER cheated until last year. Nicole and I reunited via Myspace in March 2008 through a mutual friend who attended college with us. She's divorced and she has a son around my kids' age; her ex-husband was an abusive jerk. Sparks started flying again, we met up in person and I proceeded to have an affair with Nicole while married to Annette. I still love Nicole but I had no plans on leaving Annette. Nicole feels no remorse about dating me because she feels as though Annette "robbed" her of what she could have had with me. True. In college, Annette did tell me to make a choice between her and Nicole and I chose Annette. So, I guess Nicole is still bitter after all these years. After two months of reconnecting with Nicole, Annette found out about her. She was hurt and she told me to leave. So, I moved out in May 2008 but we still remained legally married. Although I continued to sleep with Nicole, I wasn't ready to commit myself to her because I was still sad about separating from Annette. In July 2008, I met Leslie. She was single, beautiful, smart, funny and sweet. She's 13 years my junior but she's VERY mature. Leslie and I have been dating ever since then and we moved in together two months ago. I'm really in love with her. I'm going to admit that ever since Annette and I separated, we would occasionally spend the night together, have sex and sometimes discuss reconciling. Just like I'm in a relationship with Leslie, Annette has a boyfriend of her own. Now, Annette is sick of "playing games" with me, she told me if I want to give our marriage another chance she will dump her boyfriend Sean and I'll dump Leslie. If not, she's staying with Sean, I'm staying with Leslie and we're getting a divorce. It's a hard decision.

I'm in love with Annette, our marriage was wonderful and it was that ONE mistake with Nicole that ruined it all. Not to mention, Annette and I have two kids who misses having both their parents together. I love Nicole and I always looked back and felt bad about the way I betrayed her in college. So I do feel as though I owe her for that. I always wondered what would have happened if I married her instead. She NEVER would have wound up with such an a s s h o l e for a husband. But I'm VERY happy with Leslie and I love her so much. I'm sure she knows that I still have feelings for my wife but she has NO idea about Nicole. I don't want to keep doing this. Whichever one I choose, the other two will be hurt. What would you do if you were me?


Unfortunately, I am in love with three women and I swear on everything that I'm not trolling. I am in love with my wife, my ex-girlfriend(first love) and my current girlfriend. I'm 40 years old and I feel like a stupid teenage boy for doing this to them because they are all amazing women. So, I have to make a choice and I'd appreciate some advice and opinions.

I met and fell in love with a woman named Nicole while we were in college and we dated steadily for over three years(1988-1991). I was just beginning to shed my "nerd" image after high school and Nicole became my first love when I got into college. We lost our virginity together and everything. During my fourth year in college in 1991, I had to spend four months in Europe studying abroad. Nicole and I had a big argument before I left for Europe but we didn't exactly breakup. While I was in Europe, I met Annette. Although I've never seen her around campus, she was also studying abroad and she was attending the same college as Nicole and me. Annette and I started studying together and then dating and then falling in love. The closer I got to Annette, the farther apart I got from Nicole. When I returned to New Jersey, I told Nicole that I fell for someone else so we broke up and it broke her heart. Annette and I stayed together, finished college, got married in 1996, had our daughter Casey in 1999 and our son Aaron in 2001. Annette and I had a great marriage and I NEVER cheated until last year. Nicole and I reunited via Myspace in March 2008 through a mutual friend who attended college with us. She's divorced and she has a son around my kids' age; her ex-husband was an abusive jerk. Sparks started flying again, we met up in person and I proceeded to have an affair with Nicole while married to Annette. I still love Nicole but I had no plans on leaving Annette. Nicole feels no remorse about dating me because she feels as though Annette "robbed" her of what she could have had with me. True. In college, Annette did tell me to make a choice between her and Nicole and I chose Annette. So, I guess Nicole is still bitter after all these years. After two months of reconnecting with Nicole, Annette found out about her. She was hurt and she told me to leave. So, I moved out in May 2008 but we still remained legally married. Although I continued to sleep with Nicole, I wasn't ready to commit myself to her because I was still sad about separating from Annette. In July 2008, I met Leslie. She was single, beautiful, smart, funny and sweet. She's 13 years my junior but she's VERY mature. Leslie and I have been dating ever since then and we moved in together two months ago. I'm really in love with her. I'm going to admit that ever since Annette and I separated, we would occasionally spend the night together, have sex and sometimes discuss reconciling. Just like I'm in a relationship with Leslie, Annette has a boyfriend of her own. Now, Annette is sick of "playing games" with me, she told me if I want to give our marriage another chance she will dump her boyfriend Sean and I'll dump Leslie. If not, she's staying with Sean, I'm staying with Leslie and we're getting a divorce. It's a hard decision.

I'm in love with Annette, our marriage was wonderful and it was that ONE mistake with Nicole that ruined it all. Not to mention, Annette and I have two kids who misses having both their parents together. I love Nicole and I always looked back and felt bad about the way I betrayed her in college. So I do feel as though I owe her for that. I always wondered what would have happened if I married her instead. She NEVER would have wound up with such an a s s h o l e for a husband. But I'm VERY happy with Leslie and I love her so much. I'm sure she knows that I still have feelings for my wife but she has NO idea about Nicole. I don't want to keep doing this. Whichever one I choose, the other two will be hurt. What would you do if you were me?


My teenage daughter is having a party. We know everyone she has invited, but if someone brings a guest we don't know and we are "nervous" about, do we have the right to ask guests to empty their pockets, etc. before they enter? Or would it be better to simply refuse someone entry?


I find myself having an attitude with my parents and getting annoyed with them when we talk. I don't want to be mean, especially since they really did nothing mean to me. I feel so ungrateful.

I also have been feeling like I just don't like my father. Our conversations are awkward and I just don't feel comfortable around him.

Why am I this way? When I was a kid I liked both my parents and was a good daughter.


I RECENTLY MOVED BACK TO MY HOMETOWN AFTER BEING AWAY FOR 20 YEARS. I'VE NEVER NEEDED MY MOTHER TO SUPPORT ME MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, OR FINANICIALLY? AS A CHILD I'VE NEVER RECIEVED ANY EMOTIONAL SUPPORT FROM MY MOTHER WHICH MAKE IT EASIER FOR ME TO FEEL THIS WAY AS AN ADULT. I FELT AS THOUGH SHE NEVER HAD TIME TO DEAL WITH ME OR MY ADOLECENT ISSUE. I WAS RAISED WITH THREE OLDER SIBLINGS AND AND THREE YOUNGER SIBLINGS. I'VE NEVER BEEN TO JAIL OR CAUGHT UP IN ANY TROUBLE WITH THE LAW. I'VE ALWAYS KEPT JOBS TO SUPPORT MY DAUGHTER AND I. THE LAST SIBLING WERE AND STILL ARE HIGHLY FAVORED BY MY MOTHER.

I'M ALMOST 40 YEARS OLD RAISING A TEENAGE DAUGHTER ON MY OWN, IN MY OWN HOME, WITHOUT THE HELP OF ANYONE. BEING AROUND MY MOTHER MAKES ME VERY MISERABLE AND SAD. SHE ALWAYS HAS NEGATIVE COMMENTS TO SAY ABOUT ME AND MY DAUGHTER. I HATE BEING AROUND HER SHE TURNS MY SUNNY SKIES GREY. IT ONLY REMINDS ME WHY I LEFT IN THE FIRST PLACE. WHEN I TRY TO EXPLAIN TO HER ABOUT HER NEGATIVE COMMENTS SHE GETS UPSET AND CALLS MY OTHER SIBLINGS ON THE PHONE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT ME AND HER GRANDCHILD.

RECENTLY, SHE ASKED ME TO TAKE IN MY NEPHEW WITH I AGREEED, SHE WANTED TO CONTROL THE RULES OF MY HOUSE WITH DIDN'T FLY WITH ME. I STOOD MY GROUNDS AND TOLD HER THIS IS MY HOUSE AND I MAKE ALL THE RULES.

SHE CALLS ME EVERYDAY AND WANTS TO KNOW WHERE I'M GOING AND WHO I'M DATING.

I'M AT THE POINT WHERE I WOULD LIKE TO CUT HER OFF COMPLETELY. I JUST CAN'T TAKE HER ANYMORE.

IS THIS THE RIGHT THING TO DO?





I want to sleepover at my friends house and go trick or treating tomorrow. My mom however keeps coming up with excuses. how do i persuade her to let me go? i barely ever get the chance to get out of the house, my mom is coming up with excuses like oh nows not a good time, i dont know the parents...etc... please give me some advice here! (btw im 14)

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